
What Are Energy Cords?
Energy cords are invisible strands of energy that attach you to another person (or place or situation). Not obvious to the conscious mind, these energetic attachments are experienced in the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bodies.
Energy cords often attach at the same place in both people. The most frequent location in my experience is the heart and solar plexus.
Energetic cords create a pathway for the exchange of life force energy, emotions, and, in strong attachments, the ability to observe, exchange, or direct thoughts or feelings.
It’s possible to observe energy cords, but not with physical vision. You can observe them with your intuitive sense of sight or psychic vision or in your soul record.
I can guide you through the process of identifying and dissolving energy cords with visualization during meditative journey designed for this purpose.
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When visualized, it’s reported that energy cords look like a cord, rope, thread that can be heavy or light, opaque or transparent with flecks of light or glitter that make it identifiable. It could be any color and the color may represent the positive or negative aspects of the cording.
Otherwise, energy cord attachments are revealed by a variety of signs that you may experience regularly or from time-to-time.
Positive energy cord attachments (usually to partners, children, family, best friends) are not interruptive to your energy flow. The type of energy exchanged with those cords is usually loving, peaceful, supportive energy; as long as the relationships are good. If and when the relationship turns toxic, even temporarily, so does the energy flowing through the cords.
While energy cords can be negative or positive, my opinion is that all energy cord attachments are negative and ought to be dissolved.
Most cords are created in your current life, but some travel with your through time from past lives. I can see past life energy cords in your soul record and clear them. Past life cords don’t create an obvious change because you arrived in your current life with them intact.
A clue of a past life attachment is a hindrance to your efforts to create change or a feeling that something is off or never seems to work out for you in a way that serves you best. It may serve someone else instead; likely the person you attached to in the past life.
Signs of Energy Cord Attachment
Signs that indicate you may have a negative energy cord attachment (given all else is well in your life and health) include:
Physically or emotionally drained
Overwhelmed or stressed
Dependent on a particular person
Obsessively thinking about someone or their situation
Repetitively replaying a situation over again in your head
Dependent on someone else’s energy to lift you up
Not letting go of rejection
Constant urge to check-up on someone
Feeling stuck
Maintaining a negative connection to have a connection
Random thoughts of a particular person
Focusing on ideas or desires of others instead of your own
Feeling out of alignment
Unusual jealousy, resentment, anger, or fear
Feeling watched
Self-doubt
Attracting toxic relationships
Feeling like something is off
Unusual physical sensations or marks on your body
Dream or daydream appearances of a particular person
Recreating the same situations that don’t serve you
The potential to create an energy cord exists constantly. You can cord to others and others can cord to you – friends, enemies, family, lovers and others, exes, co-workers, strangers standing next to you in line or on an airplane, acquaintances, or someone you met briefly and may not be currently acquainted.
Distance isn’t a factor. You may be corded by someone standing behind you in line at a grocery store or someone you met once who lives on the other side of the planet.
It’s not unusual to have multiple energy cord attachments!
Negative vs Positive Energy Cords
Energy cords can be negative or positive.
Positive energy cords are created between people who love and care for each other like partners, children, family, best friends, caregivers, and mentors.
The type of energy exchanged is loving, peaceful, and supportive. For as long as the relationship is good. If and when the relationship turn toxic, even temporarily, the positive cord flips to become negative and so does the type of energy exchanged.
For example, an energy cord attachment created between partners while madly in love may enable them to pick-up on each other’s thoughts and feelings which sounds romantic. Fast forward to the break-up (or strong state of disagreement) when both are expressing strong emotions that are not loving and instead are strong resentful, jealous, or vindictive; now you have a negative cord attachment that sharing or exchanging negative energy.
All energy cords, both positive and negative, ought to be dissolved in my opinion because the world needs you operating on 100% of your own power, without outside influence to take you out of soul alignment.
It’s the energetic attachment that’s negative, not the person, because cords take you out of soul integrity by taking you out of soul alignment.
Clearing energy cord attachments paves the way for enhancing your spiritual development, soul realignment, soul integrity, and relief from the problematic situations that occur with negative attachments discussed earlier.
Energy Cords As Pathways
When the energy cord connection is strong, you may be able to tap into the feelings and thoughts of the person you’re connected to and vice-versa.
When you have energy cords, your energy is not 100% yours and as a result you may attract to you what the other person desires. Or people may view you as having characteristics of the other person in particularly strong attachments.
Given strong intuitive or psychic abilities, observation in real time of details such as location, activity, feelings, intentions can be discerned, and perhaps influenced. That’s a rare ability and I share it to emphasize the importance of dissolving all energetic cords and maintaining a strong energetic boundary.
Good energy hygeine prevents most attachments, and in the case you feel a cord was projected (I can feel a cord attach and often see a small, pencil-sized eraser sized red mark on my body at the point of attachment), it’s easier to release it more quickly.
Clearing energy cord attachments paves the way for enhancing your spiritual development, soul realignment, soul integrity, and relief from the problematic situations that occur with negative attachments discussed earlier in this series.
Results of Dissolving Energy Cords
Dissolving Energy Cords is a holistic healing act to:
Restore your energy so you don’t feel drained
Create an energetic boundary to limit future cording
Restore your sense of freedom
Cut being dragged down
Return home to yourself
Become self-empowered
Eliminate outside influence
Declutter your energy and release emotional obstructions causing limitation
Elevate your vibrational state so you are difficult to attach to energetically
Become resistant to the energy projections of others
Return to feeling whole
Strengthens self-confidence and trust in your decisions
Regain soul integrity
Deepen your spiritual development
Sharpen your intuition
Trust your decisions
Gain self-confidence
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Prevent Energy Cord Attachments With Good Energy Hygiene
When you have a weak aura or energetic boundary, it’s easy to become corded to someone, even strangers. You may be projecting energy cords to attach or receiving them. On some level, you have to be open to accepting energy cords in order for them to attach. This is a topic for another blog and the type of work I do as a soul coach when I’m working in your soul records in the Akashic Records. For general purposes, a good practice is to keep your energy contained to you, recognizing the signs of attachment, and regularly dissolving energy cords, known or not, for good energy hygiene.
If you are in the healing arts, this is an absolute must in my opinion.
Here are some suggestions to consider as you create good energy hygiene:
- Epsom or Himalayan salt in your bath or scrubs in the shower.
Reiki to clear existing energy cords + strengthen auric boundaries.
Guided meditation to call forth the people you are corded to with the intention to remove the cords.
Sound healings to shake stuck energy.
Engage with non-attachment in relationships.
Letting go!
Remove yourself from people, places, situations that feel toxic immediately.
Wring out your aura by intentionally bringing it close in to your body before springing it out again.
Raise your vibration so low level vibes can’t find you for attachment.
Dissolving Energy Cords After-Care
After dissolving energy cords, you may feel different for a short time. My clients report feeling lighter, centered, grounded, relieved, free, unencumbered, less stressed, and peaceful.
However, sometimes you may not feel like yourself at first because you were operating in conjunction with another soul’s energy for a period of time. You may also feel an immediate desire to re-cord! Don’t do it!
How do you know you are attempting to re-cord?
- You immediately check their social media for a change.
- You call or text them with some news.
- You show up at a mutually favorite hang-out spot hoping to see them.
- You inquire about the person to a common friend.
- You purposely review photos, past message, or sit to daydream about the person.
Just sit with your new state of being and let the energy around you change. When your energy changes, so does the energy all around you, like dropping a pebble into a pond and seeing the ripples effect not only the surface of the water but everything in it including the edges of the pond.
You may find that when the energy does settle and you are operating 100% on your own power, relationships may change. Some will disappear and others will arrive or strengthen.
Like a Reiki energy clearing, some people may experience some physical effects after dissolving energy attachments, such as:
- Desire to sleep or take a long nap.
Tears to physically release negative energy.
Physical elimination more often for a day.
A surge of energy.
Vivid dreams.
Minor, temporary skin break-outs.
Immediate aftercare suggestions I make to clients include:
Soaking in water with salts (Epsom or Himalayan or dead sea salts for example). Or shower and scrub yourself with the salt
Anoint yourself with essential oils for strengthening your aura and energetic boundaries. My favorites are lavender, frankincense, sage, and cedar.
Avoid thinking about the person (or you could recreate the cord!). Set a strong boundary for yourself if you do engage with the person.
The stronger your energetic boundary is, and the health of your aura, will deter and prevent future energetic cords projected at you from attaching.
Do not be surprised if you hear from the people that you were corded to within 24-48 hours after dissolving the cords!
This happens often. You may get a text, a call, a like or emoji on a social media post, a call, an email, or a message of greeting passed between you by a friends. You may experience a random “run-in” with the person at a favorite restaurant, side-walk cafe, or see them on the street. No need to run and hide! They aren’t negative, it’s the energetic cording and attachment that’s negative. Hold your boundary.
Very strong rejection of cord removal could result in the person showing up in dreams often.
Knowing more about energy cords will help you recognize when you have gained an energy cord attachment so you can deal with it immediately. You’ll become more sensitive to the signs and maybe even feel the attachment physically or emotionally.
I have recently had the experience, which I find difficult to articulate but is similar to what has been described here.
Essentially, it is the experience of dissolving into the energetic vibration of difficult states of matter. At times, I am able to consciously merge my entire being with the cosmos. Other times, I can feel my body become permeable, and my energy matching the vibration frequency of light, fire, water, air, earth…
Is there a more formal term used to describe what is happening?
Thanks for your question, Simon. For the experience of merging with cosmos, I’d say it’s Sourcing. This is when you intentionally connect to divine source energy or Universal source energy. People do this for different reasons; to connect and be filled with energy, for grounding to Universal energy, to connect to the Akashic Records, among others. All bodies are permeable. We’re held together by chemistry and gravity and certain types of energy pass right through us. You may feel the vibration or frequency of the elements and certainly the elements of water, air, light, are part of us. There could be an argument for fire with the electro-magnetic or electronic firings of nerves and such. I don’t have a more specific term for it. You may find one in the discussions of quantum physics or cosmology.